Thank you Brenda for these kind and VERY helpful ...

2007-03-07T23:08:00.000-05:00

Thank you Brenda for these kind and VERY helpful words .....
I am 39 .. male with 2 children and I am going threw it all !!! My lover for 20 years (mom of both kids) has decide to leave me, and has done so now for over a month... my problems are many and they were almost all answered ... but how can a guy that is foreclosure of the home... bankruptcy... 50 hour work weeks ... responsible for all children's needs ,, STILL VERY MUCH IN LOVE with lover ,and extremely depressed get over it ... the "light on pedals .." is just not enough here ... My lover thinks I have cheated ... she had a doctor convinced her of this ... and I proved that doctor wrong !!! but this was after she had moved out... I want her back so very much!!! She made choices on things that I know doctors can help me with.. I am very jealous man ... At times I did go over board ( never did I hit her . hold her back from leaving ... etc k ) I also have been know to worry about her way to much ... when I was 18 the woman I had plan to marry was killed in a car wreck.. it devastated me !!! I have asked her for her understanding this in me, but it seems to get the better of me at times, when she does not call, or is not where she says she went .... she did cheat on me in the past ... and the "forgive statement" you defined -- WAS NEVER DEFINED TO ME IN SUCH A CLEAR AND UNDERSTANDING MANNER IT HIT HOME ON WHAT I MUST DO... AND WHAT I PRAY SHE WILL DO ..
I'm pretty sure I define the mid life crises here .... and want to be in a better state of mind and body .. and life to sum it up .. are there any other recommendations you can give .... my budget as you can imagine is not where I want it !!! thank you again for your words and I hope the day treats you to warmth and sun sine :)
Larry In FL. march 2007

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Thank you Brenda for these kind and VERY helpful ...